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****************************************************** webminister@webminister.com June 2000 - #1
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****************************************************** The less than seven group is ideal for a prayer group or a Bible study face-to-face intimate situation. Most researcher on small group dynamics report that when a group grows beyond seven members, the benefits of the small group begin to erode. John Ellas in "Church Growth Through Groups" (p 61) states "it is a small enough gathering of people to allow for primary group relationships (heart-to-heart). This goes beyond surface interaction and social fellowship to a spiritual fellowship." Also, committees to get things done normally number five to seven. The eight to 17 group can be described as an "overgrown" small group. These groups can function if members are well acquainted with each other and a period of socializing is used to build and maintain relationships. With less than 17, most people can "keep track of" in our head and recall names without hesitation. This group is a good size for question and answer sessions, and monitored discussion where most have an opportunity to present their views. These techniques do not work well in larger groups. In your congregation, what are the sizes of individual classes? Is size dictated by facilities or by group dynamics?
****************************************************** John Ellas in "Church Growth Through Groups" (pp 144 - 148) states "small groups provide an avenue to meet the single, greatest felt need in America – community. Mobility and the modern lifestyle have dissolved the extended family and fractured the nuclear family. Study after study reveals the resulting hurt and void in the lives of mobile Americans. People are RECOGNIZING A NEED FOR EXPERIENCING FAMILY, BELONGING, ACCEPTANCE, AND COMMUNITY. [emphasis mine] Small groups are proving to be the best ministry tool to regain these divine blessings." In a survey (Ellis, p 146) where small groups were performing relatively well between 70% and 80% felt that the group was helping them strengthen their faith in God, increase Bible knowledge, and develop love for others and desire for Christian service. In poorly performing groups the results were still better than large groups.
****************************************************** James A. Jones in "Managing Church Conflict" (p. 13) states that even "when a group is designed for adding new participants, it must be aware of its resistance." James gives five reasons for the tension that developed. 1) Adding even one new member changes the makeup of the group, and therefore is disruptive to some degree. 2) One new member forces the group to change. 3) Change is painful, and therefore the group resists. 4) In order for a group to accept a new member, it must regress and again go through the developmental stages. 5) Regression is painful and requires work, and thus the group resists. Two excellent articles from "Church Growth" magazine are "What Is the Future for Small Groups" by John W. Ellas [ http://webminister.com/growth01/plan0096.htm] and "Developing Evangelistic Small Groups in a Rural, Traditional Church" by Kevin R. Ward [http://webminister.com/growth01/plan0106.htm]. Visit http://4churchgrowth.com and with mailing address or phone number, ask for a free copy of the "Church Growth" magazine.
****************************************************** Recently, a friend of mine spent $50 for a software program on a CD that was available free as freeware for downloading on another web site. One should look for the largest number of downloads to find out what is popular among the computer geeks (word travels fast among major developers as to what works) . Some software is free, while some is shareware with limited time usage or pay a small fee. Some is commercial for sale. Two favorite names are Tucows and Cnet: Tucows is based on a bad pun – by wanting to stay "ahead of the herd". However, when looking for software, Tucows is a good place to start. They test and rate software by the "number of cows". The more cows the better the rating. Visit http://archive.bitcon.no/tucows/ and http://www.tucows.com/ . The other site is Cnet which cornered the market on names, i.e., software.com, download.com, freeware.com, shareware.com and many more. Visit http://cnet.com/ and http://download.cnet.com/ for all kinds of software.
****************************************************** Ellas discusses the small and middle-sized churches and the barriers to growth. In the final section, Ellas pulls the material together as to how the different types of small groups function and the impact of size on groups. "Church Growth Through Groups" can be bought from The Center for Church Growth for $10.95 (paperback) plus shipping and handling at http://4churchgrowth.com/chur2000.htm .
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